Love & Sex Quiz

1. You want your partner to be your best friend by sharing secrets and talking feelings.

Yes

No

2. You are the primary partner in your relationship to initiate sexual encounters.

Yes

No

3. Sometimes your partner feels invasive by wanting to know your plans and inner thoughts.

Yes

No

4. You feel uninhibited in your own body.

Yes

No

5. You never get a chance to initiate sex because your partner always asks first.

Yes

No

6. The reason you don’t share your feelings is because your partner is critical.

Yes

No

7. You long for your partner to ask you deep questions about yourself and your feelings.

Yes

No

8. You are content with infrequent sexual encounters.

Yes

No

9. In conflict, you easily shut down.

Yes

No

10. Your hobbies are likely to be solitary like reading, computer games, and gardening.

Yes

No

11. Sex makes you feel emotionally close.

Yes

No

12. You need to talk and spend time together before you feel ready to be sexual.

Yes

No

13. You enjoy lunches out, date nights, parties and social networking.

Yes

No

14. Your sexual fantasies seem very private.

Yes

No

15. You would like more frequency, variety, and intensity of sexual activities.

Yes

No

16. If your partner doesn’t complain, you think the relationship is fine.

Yes

No

17. You worry frequently about the state of your relationship and can feel starved for attention.

Yes

No

18. You need to feel connected through time together before you feel sexual.

Yes

No

19. You are a fast thinker and faster talker during an argument.

Yes

No

20. Delaying the needs of a partnership are often necessary due to work or family obligations.

Yes

No

Now score your quiz.

Scale Score Answer Questions

Emotional Distancer 1 Yes 10, 16, 20, 3, 6, 9

Emotional Distancer 1 No 1, 13, 17, 19, 7

Emotional Pursuer 1 Yes 1, 13, 17, 19, 7

Emotional Pursuer 1 No 10, 16, 20, 3, 6, 9

Sexual Distancer 1 Yes 12, 14, 18, 5

Sexual Distancer 1 No 11, 15, 2, 4, 8

Sexual Pursuer 1 Yes 11, 15, 2, 4, 8

Sexual Pursuer 1 No 12, 14, 18, 5

Here’s your Love Quiz score.

Emotional-pursuer >=6

Sexual-distancer >=5

Emotional-distancer >=6

Sexual-pursuer >=5